The psychological barriers which keep you from your goals boil down to five main stumbling blocks. You’ll recognise some of these, but others may surprise you.
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In reframing, as in life, perspective is everything. Most people will tell you that there are only two types of […]
Since this post is about overthinking, I’m going to keep it simple and clear. There are only two things you […]
Social media makes it seem as though you’re seeing the world around you, hearing a balanced set of opinions, experiencing […]
Discipline is about “rigidly following a code of behaviour”, therefore self-discipline is about being true to your own rules. Now […]
I’ve written before about confidence. Now here’s the downside: Confidence is certainty. However, this is often a problem because we […]
Framing is a key influence skill which you really mustn’t underestimate. Framing selects a viewpoint and cherry-picks the facts you […]
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When thinking about influencing others in the workplace, most people start off by making the same cardinal error. Avoid making […]
Henry Ford famously said that “Getting ready is the secret of success” While some people believe that this quote is […]
Some words can be used to ‘lend’ influence to others. In this pattern, two things become linked in a person’s […]
Many people seem to misunderstand the purpose of repetition in learning. They seem to think that repetition is about ‘getting […]
A certain set of skills, techniques and routines raise us from zero to a state of competence. However, to set […]